DEAR ABBY: Concerning “Silver Girl in New York” (Jan. 5), whose husband is making her really feel much less beloved as a result of she determined to not coloration her hair anymore: That is her resolution to make, not his. He must develop up.
You suggested her to put on a crimson wig when he’s feeling amorous. What have been you pondering? So, she is meant to be uncomfortable in her own residence simply to make her manchild husband really feel higher about himself? It’s her hair; she will do what she desires with it.
I’m wondering if her husband is a few form of Adonis after 20 years of marriage. I wager not, however she isn’t asking him to alter issues about himself.
Girls, know your price!
— TERRI IN IOWA
DEAR TERRI: Curiously, the “colorful” responses I acquired about that letter have been evenly divided. Learn on:
DEAR ABBY: Why is “Silver Girl” so towards coloring her hair for her husband? He clearly loves her and loves the crimson hair. When did girls get so sensitive? We do issues for our spouses to indicate our love.
If he have been my husband, I’d dye my hair inexperienced if he requested. I’d love the truth that he beloved my hair.
“Silver” ought to keep in mind that there are lots of girls on the market who would dye-banish the grey for an excellent man.
— NATURAL REDHEAD IN CALIFORNIA
DEAR ABBY: “Silver Girl” acknowledges that grey hair ages her look. She coloured it to look youthful and extra aggressive in her office earlier than she retired.
Did she care extra about her colleagues’ opinions than that of her personal husband? Does the truth that it makes him really feel older not matter to her?
— “GOLDIE” IN NEVADA
DEAR ABBY: After all all of us have the correct to be who and the way we need to be, however many people, loopy in love with our husbands, go the additional mile to maintain their engines operating.
Realizing they love us and need us as a lot as we do them is a turn-on.
“Silver” is fortunate her husband expresses himself, though he might use some classes on finesse.
— ECSTATIC WIFE IN MICHIGAN
DEAR ABBY: “Silver” was gray-haired when she met her husband. In terms of physique autonomy, we have to please ourselves.
If he’s having points with getting older, possibly he ought to discuss to somebody about what’s inflicting him to really feel that approach. Growing older gracefully ought to be the norm, not the exception.
— CAROLE IN WASHINGTON
DEAR ABBY: In my household, we confer with grey hair as “wisdom highlights.” — SMILING IN MAINE
Expensive Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also called Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Expensive Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Field 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
